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@MiketheDog Feel free to delete my account and everything I wrote. I will not visit this site anymore. I still have no clue what led you to be like this, but I do not have to satay in negativity. Good project, best of luck and have a great life everyone, but I will not be back. And yush, you will delete my account, Mike. If I am worth ignoring, then I am worth deleting.

It is one thing to ignore me when I ask for help, quite another to still be messaging my girl as you do. Delete my account. I have no clue why you would be like this, but I do not want to know anymore.

And I WILL NOT be bullied in secret. As that is what was happening.

Take care and be safe. Amber out.

I was good enough to share hot experiences. I was good enough to be an entertainer. But when I asked for help, oh noes. Mike, you will delete my account personally. I asked so many times for a talk. But you only found time to talk to my girl. This has nothing to do with depressions, just something to do with you behaving like selfish asshole. And this story ends here, and now.

I have ben asking you for help since October. I can understand being busy, but you stopped redin my messages. While. Talking to my girl, my future wife on a daily basis. Scratch Amber, he does not matter anymore. Delete my accoount, or I will share even more details about why I am being like this.

*To everyone else* Sorry for taking this to the chat, but agitators should not be protected.

I really liked you, Mike, As I like any human being. But... apparently being zoo has made you and some others forget how to be remotely human. YOur loss, I can assure you.

Ignoring me is one thing. I am used to that. I thought you were busy. But. Talking to my girl at the same time, flirting quite obviously. I will never forgive you that. That was a real BITCH move, in the worst sense. Still is. Try to find a path, without me.

Amber - I have no idea what has led you to this space but I believe these messages here are more harmful for you than anyone else. For you and for anyone reading this I would pass on the following advice, do not let a situation fester if it is harmful to you take action as quickly as possible. Seek resolution with the other party directly. If this is not possible then take it to a group of peers (admins). Ultimately if there is still no resolution it is best sometimes to just walk away.

I would also say that I have enjoyed reading your posts here - if you do leave it will be a voice that is lost

Agreed that is sound advice. I'm hoping this was just an outburst in frustration and things can somehow be resolved or you can just walk away, but holding onto the negativity will end up doing more harm to you than the person you have the issue with.

If someone goes behind your back and is trying to hit on your partner , "just walk away" is not sound advice. Trust allegedly has been betrayed, and that can only be resolved by holding the one who betrayed trust accountable. We already have plenty of external adversaries, we dont need additional internal ones just because someones dick itches. ....no trust, no accountability = no real community

We don't necessarily have all the facts, so any advice should always be tempered by those that do. But really it's between the two partners how things are handled it is their relationship that matters, not that of the 3rd party. I don't really think it is doing anyone any favours for this to be discussed here though, so I think we all should wish an acceptable resolution can be found and let this disappear from the shout box.

I just cannot stand people who are supporting the one who broke trust and advise the victim to "just let it go". True, I dont have all the facts ,but neither have you, but you still have no qualms to brush off Amber and literally tell him to shut up. Quite telling, dont you think? Solidarity with an alleged victim doesnt seem too fashionable in these circles...and Ambers relationship has allegedly not being respected by Mike,Amber already is the 3rd party that is ignored...

The oppressed of yesterday eventually become the oppressors of tomorrow...

30-30 - I do not know the details - all I know is there was some dirty laundry aired in the shout box - and as you said none of us have all the facts so to go around and start implying that people are supporting an oppressor is a bit premature don't you think ? Maybe I missed something but I have not seen anyone tell Amber to shut up.

Also, unfortunately at the end of the day things like this tend to devolve into a 'he said she said' situation with no one really knowing the truth except the individuals. It is next to impossible to hold someone to account with that. If there is issue talk to the admins, if no resolution and you want to put your story out there then write a post supply evidence. That is the only way.

To be clear 30-30 I was saying almost the complete opposite to what you stated. What we know is somebody was in pain and felt unheard, they spoke out to try and get someones attention. The person in pain and their partner are the only important things here. If the couple want to walk away from the 3rd party that is a valid path. Punishing or wanting revenge for a perceived wrong doing is not the only option. But this discussion is unlikely to be beneficial for Amber so that's all I'll say on it.